That's the way my mother used to describe me...
"
Love you mom."
Find the two words that are the same as each other with the exception of one letter.
Example: a cruel or inhumane person / racketeer (7) -> moNster / moBster
-1. not up to the task / facilitate (6)
-2. settle or establish firmly / crazy (8)
-3. divide or assess proportionally / official proving of a will (7)
-4. contrast / an inexperienced golfer (6)
-5. dominate / an angler? (6)
-6. accent / scatters untidily (6)
-7. word with loan or ad / the aspect of characters as perceived by others (8)
-8. ordinance / extent (6)
-9. hire / anger (6)
-10. cower / edge (6)