actually I had the same problem and I think the solution just came to mind...
goal has 3 personalities right...
so why do we only have two options when you use the remote...
well because the 3rd chip is inside her head..
so i imagine the solution is clicking on one of the remote's button twice until she's back to lady goal
there's lady goal, baby goal, and spunky goal.
we want lady goal.
(I'm using this opportunity to point out that goal is a stupid sounding name :P)
anyways,
the only other thing I can think of is that maybe you have to complete the part with bozo first (the guy sitting to the left in the bar)... you have to get him to leave to go see his misses (the scary lady who owns the weapon shop)
I'm trying it tonight :)