Thank you very much!
Yes, I imagine you do have a Finnish wife!
I am from London but live in Sweden, so before I moved to Sweden, Finns were a bit of a novelty.
I live in Göteborg, so there are a lot of Finnish who came to work in the Volvo plant in the 70s and their second generation Swedish born Finnish offspring. They have Finnish passports, so they are Finnish Citizens.
Mostly we bond by ribbing the Swedes for their Swedish behaviour!