We'll be at home with son and g'sons. I'll cook for days before, though since son is working and won't be able to help, I'll cook less than last year. The g'sons really look forward to it and know the rule...Since I cook (and therefore clean the kitchen) for days before, once dinner is done, the men and boys clean up the mess and everyone is responsible for reheating and cleaning up after themself for the next several days.
When daughter lived here we got out the good china, good silverware, good glasses, fancy serving stuff, etc which all had to be washed by hand. Now we default to as much disposable stuff as we can so the cleaning phase is much easier.
Gotta plan it all next week.