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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187378
05/28/19 09:17 AM
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I love all the ideas for solving this mess! Unfortunately, the laws that protect Tenants are really biased. Landlords have a bad reputation for being unfair. I know some are, but I'm not one of them. Laws protect equally and the Judge has to follow all laws on her rulings and what she allows. My Tenant has the help of a legal aid lawyer who is advising her covertly. I'm going to spot him the next time I see her in court on Monday. I know she is getting really good 'get your landlord' advice because she isn't savvy enough to be filing all this motion/hearing/ad litem stuff on her own. I could hire my own lawyer, BUT she's forced me into financial ruin. I'm just able to pay all credit/utility bills with about 100 or less left over each month for food and everything else. I am letting the mortgage remain unpaid and so far the lender (private) is working with me because they know the situation with this tenant is eventually going to be solved and they will be paid when I get a new renter.

Horrible part is NOT knowing what the next hearing will bring. I am depressed then hopeful, then back down to rock bottom endlessly. Won't know till Monday when the Judge rules one way or the other. I already got a judgment in my favor on the Mom and the minor son which included 2 months back rent (which I will never be able to collect). The adult disabled son is the current problem since she is using him as a weapon to stay longer for free. Either he is or isn't capable of renting this house on his own and she tells it both ways to suit whatever the current rulings are. I'm hoping that the Judge can (law again which she must follow) rule him incompetent to do anything alone and that Mom is indeed his guardian and makes all his choices for him. If so, he had no standing to file that last paper insisting he had rights to the rental (other than WITH his mother there). No rent paid from anyone since Jan 4 and with the new ad litem ruling, I have no idea how much longer she can stretch this out. I'll find out Monday. Her lawyer (free from legal aid) is really good at what he's doing for her. Gotta give him credit for continuing the attack on me. He knows all the little ins and outs and tells her what to do next. I've spoken to the guys in legal aid and they are very aggressive for the Tenant and won't help me at all because I'm the big bad landlord. What a nasty mess. Legal aid people are volunteers so they don't fall under any state guidelines for what they can or cannot do. They make their own rules. She automatically qualifies because of her disabled son's status. I don't qualify for anything and if I had the money I'd for sure hire the best lawyer i could.

Wish this was all over. Keep those positive thoughts coming and throw in a few for some bad karma for this evil tenant. She's busy shopping daily and taking Taxi's again and spending entire nights from 7ish to wee hours of the morning away somewhere. I'm guessing Casinos or bars to make money. Plus the drug deals out front. Worse yet, the 17 year old seems to be helping with the drug stuff. He's now making the 10 minute trips to the corner and coming back with nothing I see. Then mom seems to have something to 'give' to her friend in the very visible Chevy Van out front. Then she goes on a shopping spree again. Oh how i wish I had proof for the police. Way too complicated to get that and prove anything even if I did see her doing the selling, and did see her with the drug dealers at the laundromat etc. Wouldn't be enough for the police to arrest anyone. Sigh....hoping for an end to all this and then on to the next crisis.


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187394
05/28/19 01:48 PM
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This is tough to just read Sorta I can't imagine what it is like to live it. tantrum


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187407
05/28/19 06:14 PM
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Hi Space, it's painful and depressing. Imagine someone having you trapped and pointing a weapon at you and taunting you hour by hour day by day as to when or if they will use it. You never know what the day has in store, what terrible thing she will come up with next to thwart your efforts to get her out of your house. I have NO idea what LAW says I have to support a family of 3 for as long as they decide they want to stay. Laws are terrible and penalize the Landlord for the crime of being nice enough to rent to a deserving (so I thought) family. Who knew she would turn out to be a monster? Makes ya want to never rent again. It will maybe be all over on Monday. I'm not holding my breath though. I just have this feeling that it will just keep going and going and going....Probably just me not waking up from a nightmare??


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187414
05/28/19 06:41 PM
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I think you should take this story to a local news station to publicize how the local judge/court is letting a family live rent free by using the legal system.

Like KUSI News "It Ain't Right!" Their website says to Submit a tip to: itaintright@kusi.com or 858-571-FILE (3453)

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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187464
05/29/19 08:11 AM
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Once this is finally all over, I am thinking about doing 'something' to make sure this gal never does this to another person. I'm not the first, I won't be the last, but I confirmed again yesterday, that in the month of December, she received over 49k cash, non-taxable income for her family. Her sister, received 53k for her family (they had been living together in a rented house which was purchased to be torn down for a huge low/mid income apartment building. I called the company again (nice people) and was assured that all the monies were paid (in 3 checks over a 2 week period) to my tenant. What she did with all that money from December 1-Jan 1 I will never know. Hid it? Spent it? Gambled it away? (my favorite choice), spent it on 'self medication'? I'm just waiting and trying to be optimistic about Monday's court date that nothing new happens on her part and that the Judge reinstates the lock out by the Sheriff along with her and the 2 kiddos and I get my house back. Then it's another total rehab to fix, clean, refurnish, etc. All over again. I jsut can't see how the state of California is forcing me to SUPPORT a family of 3 for the last 3 months, going on 4 now with no income. It's like a sentence has been rendered, finding me guilty of whatever and forcing me to do this. Will never understand the law.


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187487
05/29/19 12:55 PM
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You are being FORCED to take this woman and her kids on as a charity case with no consideration of your own finances or needs. Something is wrong with this system.


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187498
05/29/19 02:44 PM
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We will all be sending positive vibes your way Sorta. thumbsup


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187514
05/29/19 06:43 PM
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Thanks guys! She's still on the attack today. After I got the judge to admonish her not to send me any more 'harassing' emails, she did it again. This time it was under the guise of something about the house which the judge said was ok to email me about. Either rent or house stuff. Soooo she starts off with she wants to meet with me about the 'housing situation'. I figured I'd better answer because if something is wrong, I need to make it right. Well, it wasn't about the house at all, it was AGAIN about her being able to spend more time here free of course. I answered a few little cryptic questions on my part and that made her mad again and she finally said she didn't 'want to have to do 'actions' against me to stay longer'. I asked what actions and she gave up. But her last email of the string was, "Sorry to tell you, but I think the termites are back again". Yeah just like that. What the heck??? Are termites now a dangerous situation? Are they hazardous to your health? Are there any houses in California that do NOT have termites? Geez....she's a piece of work. Copied it all and taking it to our 'hearing' on Monday. Hope I can get the Judge to read it and tell her again to just quit it. I consider it harassing and vindictive and a fear tactic. Very not nice tenant. Can't seem to figure her out no matter what.


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187602
05/30/19 02:45 PM
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She should be put on a do not rent to ever list. rolleyes


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187611
05/30/19 04:39 PM
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I would love her on a do not rent list except I want it AFTER she's gone from my house. Yup.

She spent the entire mid-morning and afternoon playing email tag with her. This time as yesterday she's trying to convince me to make an agreement BEFORE we go to court on Monday. I'm not agreeing. I want any agreement to be made by the Judge with witnesses and recorded. We have microphones on the tables in front of us and everything is recorded. She insisted she was trying to avoid calling the City and State Farm to report me and have the house inspected for all the problems and I would have to spend a lot of money to fix all those AND I'd have to pay to have her move out during that time. I reminded her that SHE already has a judgment against her for cancelation of the lease and $3300 bucks she owes me. But for my mistake on one paper for her disabled son, the Sheriff would have removed all of them almost 2 weeks ago. Darn. My fault.

But she has now backed off on the turning me in (don't know if she actually will do it). I'm not afraid of city code enforcement. They just tell you what needs fixing, no fines and when it's fixed they come back and inspect. No biggie except the work. I always fix everything I find wrong. THEN I told her if anything was wrong, she would need to use the 'fix and deduct' law since I had NO money and can prove it with my documents. I told her to fix whatever and deduct it from the RENT she owes me. Ha. Another backpeddling by her.

Not sure if we will continue all this back and forth tonight or tomorrow, but I've got some great emails to show the judge of her threatening me with all sorts of 'actions' if I don't agree before court time to let her stay longer. She says she 'might' have a place, 'working to get the place' but it's not ready till the 20th. Yeah, Like I never heard that one before, and with the SAME date. Geez. No memory of trying that lie on me months ago.

Anyway, printing out emails for court. Might need them or not depending on what she's going to do on Monday. I'm guessing she's not been able to get that Guardian Ad Litem paperwork for her son, or thought better of it. Perhaps it would have sparked an investigation by Social Services where she gets all her 'stuff'. We shall see.


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187613
05/30/19 05:07 PM
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Oooo… good point there. I hadn't thought about that potential SS investigation. She is definitely sounding quite desperate to manipulate you into letting her stay longer. At this point belongings and people on the lawn might be the only outcome you can hope for. She made this bed and I have a feeling she ran into a buzzsaw with you.


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Draclvr] #1187856
06/02/19 06:51 AM
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Good luck tomorrow Sorta, will be thinking of you, and keeping my fingers crossed that everything goes well for you.

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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187879
06/02/19 08:21 AM
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Thanks again everyone for all your support. I am not sleeping well since all this happened. Prayers are gratefully accepted and all the positive energy you guys can muster for me. SHE is using every legal dirty trick in the book to stay here at my expense. Not just free house but the water and trash and electricity for the sewer pump, without which, sewage will back up into her tub then the toilet. Worse yet, the other rental (my best friend) will flood first. SHE could care less as long as she gets what she wants.

Starting Thrusday, she has continued to try to get me to come to 'an agreement' before tomorrow's hearing. I finally decided to play along and asked her for a copy of the LEASE for the new place to prove she had one this time. SHE sent me a totally messed up lease which by careful reading and looking at all the erasures, write overs, white outs, and changes, turned out to be a lease from 2016 for the place she rented just before coming here. Yeah. Really a nice piece of evidence. I probably won't be able to introduce it to the Judge but maybe, just maybe I can.

SHE still thinks I'm writing up an agreement to sign before court (on her terms of course) that will tell the Judge that she and I agree to letting her move out on the 22nd. I'm not writing or agreeing to anything but she doesn't know that yet. SHE also won't tell me the Birth Date of her younger son. He's supposed to turn 18 on June 20 (she doesn't know I know the date) but she flatly refused to give me his birth date. Yeah, that's suspicious. I'm guessing that she is going to use HIM now as another way to stay here free because if I had the agreement, which of course she is lying about once again, she would have HIM claim rights to the house being now an ADULT. Savvy gal, she knows it all. I must find a way to tell the Judge what might happen and see if there is anything I can legally do about this one.

Not happy, not looking forward to yet another hearing tomorrow, that probably will just let her stay longer and longer without paying me a dime. The law is terrible and does not protect Landlords. I feel sorry for all the other Landlords who are going through this type of thing. Sat through a lot of cases lately while biding my time at the courthouse and found that the Tenant has all the rights. Sad but true. Law protects them (as it should) but some of us Landlords are not the greedy, nasty people they portray us to be. Very very sad over all this.

Hoping tomorrow will be good news, but expecting the worst again. Don't know how I'm going to continue to pay my bills with no money coming in. All I have from retirement and a small widow's Social Security are used up on my credit debts, many of which are ones used to rehab that rental. I expected to be able to recoup some of the costs with the rent. Now I'm behind. So far, I'm not missing payments, only my mortgage and my lender is giving me a lot of leeway because of the situation. Won't last forever.

Still losing weight, but hey, being thinner is good. Feel healthier with 30 lbs gone and finding clothes fitting that were stored away. Even fit into my wedding dress! Wish it had been a weight loss not caused by stress.

Keep those prayers and good thoughts coming. 8:30 am California time is the court date for Monday.


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187882
06/02/19 08:46 AM
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prayers and postive thoughts on your way, hate the lawyer and judge for this.

Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187884
06/02/19 09:55 AM
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That altered lease is good evidence of an attempt to defraud. I don’t see why the judge wouldn’t consider it. You also seem to have plenty of evidence from e-mails that she’s tried to intimidate amd manipulate you. It’s hard to understand how this can happen. Who set up these crazy laws anyway? Best of luck on Monday.

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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187887
06/02/19 10:38 AM
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Good luck, Sorta.....Hugs!


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1187891
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Oh, definitely what Sparkle said - that altered lease is an attempt to defraud. She keeps digging herself a deeper hole.


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1188041
06/04/19 08:05 PM
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Had court Monday. Made a deal with the devil herself because when she thinks she's getting her way, she agrees to stop the torment. I don't think she understands exactly what she does to people who are nice to her. Scares everyone away. Anyway, I weighed my choices on what might happen at court with the Son's claim (which mom filled out and made him sign) and I decided to go for a sure thing instead of guessing and maybe coming out worse than I was.

She and I went into court, I told her she had to apologize to the judge for putting her mentally disabled son on the complaint in an attempt to stall the move out date (which it did) and that she wanted to retract the claim. I was holding the FAKED lease she sent me over her head and said I would show it to the judge if she changed her mind at the last minute and fooled me again.

It was actually fun to see the Baliff (who knows us well by now with all the appearances) looking at us in disbelief that we were actually talking and sitting together. Had it all planned what she would say, what I would agree and THEN it wasn't the same judge! Eeeeek! She was sick and it was a man who had no idea the history of our little mess, but to her credit, my Tenant stood there and stated she wanted to retract her son's claim and that she would agree to a lock out date that we both agreed on before court. Judge asked the CLERK who actually runs the place (ha) and she coached him as to what we were doing and he asked if we both agreed and he signed the order to remove the son's complaint, extend the lock out till the 24th (even if she's out earlier I will let the Sheriff do the legal job) and that was that. Wow.

So today I went in again on the Trolley and got the copy of the court minutes and it says exactly what we agreed and in big capital letters (never saw tht before on paperwork) it said: IT IS SO ORDERED. Nice. Now we are on the court's record no matter what she might try to say. All in black and white and documented that she's being locked out period .I'm optimistic but being careful not to celebrate just yet. You never can tell what she might come up with. Consummate liar, don't think she is aware of her lies but definitely wants to get her way no matter what. if you agree with her, she won't hurt you. Yup, found that out. Hope she stays in a good mood till the END.


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1188043
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At this point, you do whatever you need to do to save your sanity and get your property back. But I agree... she may still try something yet. But it does sound like her legal options are at an end anyway. It's quite obvious that this woman is more than a bubble off.


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1188044
06/04/19 08:50 PM
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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1188045
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i hopr it works.

Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1188053
06/05/19 03:25 AM
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Hope all continues to go well and she is gone by the 25th Sorta.


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1188074
06/05/19 08:21 AM
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After it is all over it would be great if you could get your story out to the media, it might help other landlords that are going through the same thing.


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Re: Need Massive Help [Re: Sorta Blonde] #1188075
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I am hoping this all goes without a hitch this time. Pretty clear what the order of the court says, but my fine little tenant probably still has her own agenda. From what I've learned over the last 6 months there are some people without conscience that you might occasionally run into when you least expect it. She isn't reasonable, might have some mental problems which don't show on the surface. The biggest lesson I found is the old adage, "Don't poke the bear". She's the bear and it's sad that despite all my efforts to try to deal with her normally, it wasn't working. Can't intimidate her, can't criticize her, can't correct her, can't push her. Just have to be all nicey-nice or she goes on the attack and won't stop till she wins. Wish I could 'win' here, but I'm just hoping that she's out when she says OR the Sheriff locks her out and that she goes away and I never see her again. So creepy to deal with. Reminds me of those made for TV movies about bad Tenants. All good in the beginning and then they turn out to be psycho. I think she's one of them. Probably could write a book about what I've learned. So horribly sad and frustrating and costly. I will recover, but not until SHE is gone gone gone. I will however, keep track of the court records now that I know how to access the information and she where she lands and what new things she is up to. Has more of a criminal history than I thought too. Just finding some of those listings now. Just inherently bad.

Keep those prayers and thoughts coming. They actually help!


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06/05/19 09:16 AM
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They are still being sent, Sorta Blonde yes


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