It's in the Anagram Advice puzzle Mad

Thank you so much, soot !!

[Some days I'm surprised I can even remember my own name ]

5. Sounds like some kind of garment, such as a robe?

In the right sort of area. oldbroad - think more soft sort of furnishings

5. a divan

A dakimakura is a Japanese body pillow. I've been thinking of getting one for myself.

11. I am thinking perhaps when they injure a leg/foot or their tail

I'm intrigued, Sue - do let us know what it's like!

Near enough, soot . My source says when it has no tail or when it can't put it's tail on the ground for some reason. Mind you, I've also seen articles that say this theory is a load of rancid dingo droppings