Hello Boomers, hope you are all well….it’s been a while. I have some news to share with you. A couple of months after my hubby’s funeral last year I was diagnosed with cancer after a CT scan and an MRI. Doctor told me my cancer is stage 3 and inoperable due to its proximity to other organs and due to my medical history and current health issues they are unable to offer me chemotherapy. I can’t have radiotherapy to treat the tumour but can have it to treat the symptoms eg pain (palliative care).
Being told the diagnosis and limited treatment options so soon after losing hubby sent me to a dark place for a time but I have to accept that it’s happened and can’t be changed. As always, my amazing kids have got my back.

Mary

Dear Mary, I have wondered how you were doing and it's very good to see you here. I am so sorry for all of the trials that you have had now for years. I will keep you in my thoughts and in my prayers. It is such a blessing your kids are there for you. Many hugs for you.

Oh, Mary, I'm so sorry, especially after everything you've been through already. I'm glad you've got your family around you.

Hi MsMercury. You were actually on my mind yesterday. I was wondering how you were doing since you had not posted in such a long time. I am very sorry to hear that you have more bad news to share and I, also, will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I am happy that you have your children to help you out and are not alone.

Mary, I am very sorry to hear about this, but glad to hear that you are coping with the situation at least a little better after recovering from the initial heavy blow of such news: definitely serenity prayer time! Sending you good vibes and hoping you still have an opportunity for some good times

Ms Mary, it is so nice to see and hear from you. Happy to know you have wonderful kids to help you these past months as the past year has been unimaginably hard for you. You are not forgotten and will always keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

I am so very sad to hear this Mary, my thoughts & prayers are with you. I am happy to hear that your kids are there to comfort you. God Bless.

Awww Mary, I am so very sorry to hear this. I too have wondered how you are and this was not the news I was expecting to hear. As always, sending prayers your way.
Happy to hear you have support from your family.

Ana

I’m extremely sorry to hear this latest news, Mary. You’ve had so much of a giant share of “having to cope”

I send you love and LOTS of

Mad

You continue to be a class act, Mary. Add my hugs to the rest because they're really piling up.

Hugs from me too Mary

Ms Mary, it is SO good to hear from you! I'm sure you have not been in a good place dealing with all this, but we sure have wondered how your were doing and hoping for the best. You are blessed with some wonderful children, so let them keep you cared for and loved. Many virtual hugs.

My Dear Mary, I have been thinking of you lately as well and hoping all was well with you. It has to be a great comfort having your kids helping you when you need them most.

Sending love and prayers to a courageous lady and friend that GB made possible for me to get to know and care about.

Love and Hugs My friend,

Gerry

Mary, I'm so very sorry to hear this news. Sending prayers, love, and hugs your way.

Mary,

I hope all this love you are receiving from your Gameboomers family lets you know how much you mean to everyone here. God bless. We will all be praying for you.

I am very sorry to hear this news MsMercury. My heart is with you. It's great you have family who cares and are there.

So sorry MsMercury to hear such bad news, my Prayers and positive vibes are sent your way and happy to hear your children are looking after you.

Hello Boomers, thank you all so much for your kind words, thoughts and prayers and for the warm hugs too. I had another consultation with my oncologist. I asked her what would happen in the future with regard to my cancer. Unfortunately nothing can be done to halt its progression or spread, it is incurable. I will be on palliative care which will entail short bursts of radiation to manage pain and bleeding should it recur.
When I had my amputations carried out, I knew they were being done to halt the progression of gangrene and to stop the horrendous pain I was in, light at the end of the tunnel. Well today I’m not seeing that light yet and I wonder if I ever will. I’m trying with all I have to stay positive but I must admit it’s hard. Not having my love and soulmate here with me makes it even harder. I miss him so much.
Sorry for letting go like this and thank you all for ‘listening’.

Much love,

Mary

Mary, much love and hugs. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mary, my brother in law had both his legs amputated because of the excruciating pain and to stop gangrene. So while I haven't experienced it, I know someone close who has and how much you are enduring.

I think about you every day and hope you can find some peace. Perhaps the light at the end of the tunnel is seeing your love again. You MAKE SURE you come here and "let go" as often as you need to. We are all her to lend a virtual shoulder to lean on.

Mary, much love to you. And yes, make sure that you come here and "let go" as often as you need to. I echo Drac's sentiments.

I think we're all good listeners here, Mary, and I know from experience that it is good to "let go" and talk! Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Hi Mary 🙂

I join with oldbroad and everyone else in hoping you will come here to Gameboomers as often as you want or need.
All of us here would welcome that and all of us here send you love and big hugs

Mad

Ms Mary ... I agree with Mad, OldBroad, Marian, Draclvr, Connie and everyone that it is good to "let go" and talk as you have many friends to talk with!

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!

Hi guys, what lovely people you all are. ….just stopping by to say ‘Hi’. I haven’t had the best of weeks this past week, been in quite a bit of pain so had to phone my GP who issued a script to the pharmacy and I had pain meds within a couple of hours. Our weather here has been extremely hot and sticky which doesn’t suit me at all so I haven’t been out since last weekend. Things have to cool down tomorrow though. My youngest son has been picking me up each Saturday for a few weeks now and we go for lunch then a drive somewhere nice and quiet. His partner had bowel cancer two and a bit years ago for which she had surgery and got the all clear. Sadly, the cancer has come back so chemo and radiotherapy followed by more surgery. My heart goes out to them both.

That’s all my news for now, it’s good to talk.
Much love to you all,
Mary

Hi MsMercury. The hot sticky weather does not suit me either.

Lunch and a drive with your son sounds very nice. Best wishes for him and his partner as she goes through the next steps of her lousy cancer journey.

Keeping you in my thoughts.

Mary, so good to see you here again. I am glad that you got your pain meds so swiftly and will pray that your pain remains manageable. Also, my very best wishes for your son and his partner as well.

You will be in my thoughts and in my prayers.

Hi, Mary! So glad you stopped in. That is quick service for those pain meds, so hope they kick in for your quickly. I heard you were having hot and sticky weather which is not normal for Scotland. Having your son get you out once a week has to be a nice break for you. Sounds like they are having a rough go of it too.

We had a little break from the oppressive heat here for a few days, but it appears it's heading back up to hot and steamy here too.

Take care, my dear! We are all thinking of you every day!

Hello Ms Mary ... so good to hear from you. Glad to hear you were able to get the pain meds quickly and hope they help you swiftly too. The weekly visits with your son must be wonderful and we could certainly do without the oppressive heat too. Best wishes for your son and his partner.

Hi MsMercury, glad you got your pain meds and I hope they do the trick for you, prayers and positive vibes sent to your son and his partner.

Hi Mary, I don't chat here too often, I like to sit in the corner and just look and listen, but I just had to say how sorry I am about all that life has thrown at you, I'm sending you kind thoughts and an ear when ever you need to "let go" . Sometimes all we can do is listen and send our thoughts to you.

Good Morning Dear Mary, I hope the pain meds are keeping you comfortable. It's good to hear that you are able to have those special moments with your son...going for a drive and enjoying a lunch out...sharing and caring for each other that's what life is all about.

It is really so good to see you here at GB with all of us who truly care about you. I hope you feel the love and hugs we all feel for you.

Take Care Dear Mary...

Love and Hugs,
Gerry

Hello MsMercury Know Im here and thinking about you My Prayers - Thoughts anytime you need a shoulder .... Know you have a Million here in gameboomers we will never say no to a listen, we Love you luvs and Hugs always

It's good to hear from you Mary. My prayers, love, and hugs for you, your son, and his partner.