I ended up missing the marriage ceremony because of the fight and "broke her heart" so I guess that was my lesson for stealing.
Given your nickname, that outcome was quite predictable

Well to quote him "I lie, I cheat, I steal and I just don't get any respect".
I think I live in the worst neighbourhood in Skyrim though. Shor's Stone is a terrible place to live.
There's a dragon living up on the summit of the mountain above the village.
There's a fort full of bandits just down the road.
The mine is full of spiders.
Vampire's attacked the town.
The watch tower up the road for the village is filled with the dead bodies of the four guards and who knows what happened there.
The town has been attacked by a dragon on five different occasions so far.
The corpse of the black smith and a guard lie in front of my house (dragon victims).