Good morning everyone. Connie, I’m really sorry for your loss...thinking of you and Lynda's friends. Oh my goodness Hagatha, you certainly have daily challenges. And like Mad notes...they usually occur on the weekends! Kimchi and Avocado Quesadillas sounds quite tasty OldBroad. Ah, sounds like hubby didn't get a vote on what to keep Draclvr.

Hope your afternoon is kind to you everyone

Extremely sorry to hear about your friend, Connie

I too would like to add my condolences for your friend, Connie. She sounds like a terrific person who carried on valiantly right up to the end. Bless her.

Connie, sorry for your loss.

Research notes I can see! But doctor appointment summaries for appointment that happened 4 years ago??? He is a serious hoarder and simply cannot throw anything away, no matter how useless it is. There is a pile of old garden hoses that have actually gone rotten after laying in a one foot tall pile for 15 years in a shed. They are likely full of snakes and other critters and utterly useless. But will he throw them away? Nope! Classic hoarder.

My brother-in-law in Southampton has become a hoarder in his old age. He looked after his parents for decades and after his mother died, he and his father couldn't cope with basic filing and sorting and the place filled up over the years. John used to go across the pond every year and clean up as much as he could in two weeks. I can just imagine what the place looks like now.

True hoarding is serious. When I was managing a rental portfolio my resident managers used to show me the hoarder apartments. All the piled up paper becomes a serious fire hazard, and the weight can bring down a floor. Sadly, even if they can be convinced to clean up a bit, they backslide very quickly. We always ended up having to evict to protect the other renters.